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- Aug. 12, 1991: Crybabies:Eternal Victims
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- TIME--The Weekly Newsmagazine--1991
- Aug. 12, 1991 Busybodies & Crybabies
- </history>
- <article>
- <source>Time Magazine</source>
- <hdr>
- NATION, Page 16
- COVER STORIES
- Crybabies: Eternal Victims
- </hdr><body>
- <p>Hypersensitivity and special pleading are making a travesty of the
- virtues that used to be known as individual responsibility and
- common sense
- </p>
- <p>By Jesse Birnbaum--Reported by Ann Blackman/Washington, Tom
- Curry/Chicago and Edwin M. Reingold/Los Angeles
- </p>
- <p> Some folks just can't get along. There, in a grocery
- store in suburban Portland, Ore., was cashier Tom Morgan, more
- or less minding his own business. And there also was cashier
- Randy Maresh, who seemed to delight in tormenting Morgan. At
- length Morgan got fed up, hired a lawyer and sued Maresh for
- $100,000 in damages. The complaint: Maresh "willfully and
- maliciously inflicted severe mental stress and humiliation...by continually, intentionally and repeatedly passing gas
- directed at the plaintiff." Not only that: Maresh would "hold
- it and walk funny to get to me" before expressing himself.
- </p>
- <p> The defense countered with the argument that breaking wind
- is a form of free speech, and that the right to flatulence was
- protected, in theory if not in so many words, by the First
- Amendment. After listening patiently to both sides, the judge
- concluded that the unusual form of aggressive expression was
- "juvenile and boorish," but he could find no Oregon law
- prohibiting it. Case dismissed.
- </p>
- <p> That happened in 1987, and the tide of petty American
- litigiousness has kept on rising to new, absurd heights. This
- is the age of the self-tort crybaby, to whom some disappointment--a slur, the loss of a job, an errant spouse, a foul-tasting
- can of beer, a slip on the supermarket floor, an unbecoming
- face-lift--is sufficient occasion to claim huge monetary
- awards.
- </p>
- <p> It is also the age of the all-purpose victim: the
- individual or group whose plight, condition or even momentary
- setback is not a matter that needs be solved by individual
- effort but constitutes a social problem in itself. "We're not
- to blame, we're victims" is the increasingly assertive rallying
- cry of groups who see the American dream not as striving
- fulfilled but as unachieved entitlement. Crybabyhood is all
- blame, no pain, for gain. And all too often it works.
- </p>
- <p> The law courts are only one of the crybaby's many avenues
- of complaint; there is the street, the pulpit, the press.
- Public officials, writers, children in school--all nowadays
- hide behind euphemisms that are often silly, not to say
- condescending, lest they be castigated by the crybaby for even
- the most inadvertent slip or imagined insult to this race or
- that ethnic group. They are fleeing, in other words, before the
- crybaby's greatest talent: the ability to hand out guilt,
- frequently entangled in the sacred American discourse on rights.
- If drunk drivers get into trouble, they have the right to blame
- their bar owners, and in most states that right is backed up by
- law. If black moviemaker Spike Lee fails to win first prize at
- the Cannes Film Festival for his Do the Right Thing, the reason
- is not that the judges deemed sex, lies and videotape the best
- movie; the reason is racism.
- </p>
- <p> So widespread is this sort of disaffection, says author
- John Taylor in a sizzling New York magazine article, that a
- double-barreled social phenomenon now threatens the real
- exercise of civil liberties. The first barrel is "victimology."
- The other is what George Washington University sociologist
- Amitai Etzioni calls the "rights industry"--the creation by
- individuals and special-interest groups of freshly minted
- freedoms and prerogatives that must be upheld even when they are
- foolishly asserted, and whose transgression is--always--a
- matter for outcry.
- </p>
- <p> Just about everybody can claim a position in the rights
- brigade: those who smoke and those who don't; those who demand
- shelter for the homeless and those who support the right of the
- homeless to refuse shelter; those who claim rights for fetuses
- and those who want the right to make their own choice for
- abortion; those who want their teenagers taught to use condoms
- and those who insist on the right to keep their kids ignorant
- of such things; campus hoodlums who insult their fellow students
- and college administrators who promulgate censorious "rules of
- conduct" to prevent their students from giving offense to this
- or that ethnic group, sexual preference, or body type. Their
- "rights" give their claims--whatever they may be--an
- absolute air, and any attempt to thwart their claims turns them
- into victims.
- </p>
- <p> Under the corrosive influence of victim ology, the
- principle of individual responsibility for one's own actions,
- once a vaunted American virtue, seems like a relic. "I have this
- image," says Roger Conner, executive director of Washington's
- liberal American Alliance for Rights & Responsibilities, "of
- human beings as porcupines, with rights as their quills. When
- the quills are activated, people can't touch each other." That
- touchiness, Conner adds, "is the visible fruit of the rise of
- self-absorbed individualism" over the past several decades. "The
- R word in our language is responsibility, and it has dropped
- from the policy dialogue in America. A society can't operate if
- everyone has rights and no one has responsibilities."
- </p>
- <p> Public affairs professor William Galston of the University
- of Maryland says the practice of blaming others stems from
- unrealistic expectations of the modern, risk-avoiding age. "If
- something bad happens to us," he says, "we are outraged because
- our lives are supposed to be perfect. Two generations ago, if
- infants were born with birth defects, it was considered an act
- of God or an act of nature. Today if the baby is not absolutely
- perfect, the tendency is to believe the doctor is responsible.
- We've created a set of social expectations and a legal structure
- in which the blame game can be played as never before."
- </p>
- <p> The combined result of those trends is to make a travesty
- of what used to be called plain common sense. To be sure,
- charlatanism and dishonesty exist, and their victims deserve the
- law's protection. Yes, bigotry is inexcusable, and those who
- suffer by it, as well as others, are right to oppose it, backed
- by the full weight of law. Certainly job discrimination on the
- basis of sex, age or disability is not only morally
- unconscionable but illegal.
- </p>
- <p> But what to think, for example, about the new area of
- litigious behavior that has blossomed and might be dubbed
- emotional tort law? Last March Julie Rems, 26, who is deaf,
- competed in the early rounds of a Miss America contest in Culver
- City, Calif. Though she was warned that Miss America rules
- precluded anyone assisting her onstage, Rems nonetheless brought
- on an interpreter who helped her lip-read questions. Rems lost
- the contest and sued the pageant committee and others, charging
- violation of her civil rights as well as "embarrassment,
- humiliation and degradation." The case has not yet come to
- trial.
- </p>
- <p> The University of California has a docket of similar suits
- long enough to keep the courts busy for years. Ten university
- attorneys, in fact, work full time solely on cases involving
- employees. In one recent imbroglio, a U.C. Santa Cruz employee,
- citing emotional stress, sued a colleague and the university
- after the colleague wrote a message on official stationery
- labeling him a racist. The plaintiff lost his case in two courts
- and plans to appeal to the state supreme court. He has
- meanwhile retired on a disability pension.
- </p>
- <p> These and similar actions are fertilized by new rules of
- comparative negligence that allow a plaintiff to recover damages
- in a lawsuit even if he is partly at fault; this means, for
- example, that a drunk driver who demolishes an illegally parked
- car can claim some damages from the defendant's insurer. Changes
- in ethical guidelines, moreover, permit attorneys to advertise
- for clients--all of which has made the lawsuit business a
- battleground for greedy practitioners. The survey firm Jury
- Verdict Research estimates that jury awards to plaintiffs of $1
- million or more leaped from 22 in 1974 to 558 in 1989. Those
- figures may be one reason why Congress is now considering a
- national tort-reform law aimed at restricting frivolous
- litigation. There is surely something new in the American air
- that inspired the estate of Christopher Duffy of Framingham,
- Mass., who stole a car from a parking lot and got killed in a
- subsequent accident, to sue the proprietor of the lot for
- failing to prevent auto thefts. The same ingredient in the
- Zeitgeist must have affected the Philadelphia jury described by
- journalist Walter Olson in a new book, The Litigation Explosion.
- The jury awarded $986,000 in 1986 to Judith Haimes, a psychic
- who was said to be on good terms with John Milton (1608-1674).
- Haimes sued her doctor and a hospital, alleging that she
- suffered an allergic reaction and intense headaches from a dye
- used in a 1976 CAT scan and as a consequence could not use her
- psychic powers. Paradise lost. The judge set aside the award;
- the case ground on until it was dismissed on appeal last
- February.
- </p>
- <p> How many ways can crybabies parse shame and blame? In San
- Francisco last month, a motley flock turned out to picket the
- classic Disney movie Fantasia. One man complained that the
- spooky Night on Bald Mountain scene had terrified his child.
- Members of an organization called Dieters United objected to the
- tutu-clad hippos frolicking to the music of Dance of the Hours;
- the protesters felt the sequence ridiculed fat people.
- Conservationists were appalled at the waste of water in
- Sorcerer's Apprentice. Fundamentalist Christians bewailed the
- depiction of evolution in Rite of Spring. Antidrug forces
- suspected something subliminally prodrug in the Nutcracker Suite
- episode featuring dancing mushrooms. Only Fantasia conductor
- Leopold Stokowski escaped chastisement, perhaps because he is
- dead.
- </p>
- <p> But not all instances of victimology are so ludicrous. Two
- men hiding in a New York City subway tunnel were burned when
- they accidentally touched an electrified rail; a jury threw $13
- million at them. The city is appealing the award. Joel
- Steinberg, the wife beater and child abuser who was convicted
- in New York City in 1989 of the battering death of his
- six-year-old illegally adopted daughter Lisa, told the court,
- "I'm a victim, as was everyone else who knew Lisa."
- </p>
- <p> Far more dangerous is the way demagogues have been able to
- dismiss as no more than "racism" the workings of the U.S.
- justice system in cases like the notorious 1987 Tawana Brawley
- affair. The fragile mechanisms of equity that Americans have
- struggled hard to establish--and must still struggle hard to
- improve--are among the things most threatened by the sweeping
- fiats of victimology.
- </p>
- <p> Language itself is buckling under the strain of avoiding
- insult and injury to everybody in response to the crybaby's
- complaint. Ever mindful of the genuine or imagined sensitivities
- of women and minorities, the University of Missouri's
- Multicultural Management Program has produced for newspaper
- reporters a 22-page dictionary of loaded words and phrases. Some
- of the proposals in the lexicon are unarguable (bimbo and broad
- are derogatory when applied to women). Other entries, listed
- mainly to pacify various groups, are questionable. Burly should
- be used with care, since it is "too often associated with large
- black men, implying ignorance and considered offensive in this
- context." Articulate could be deemed offensive "when referring
- to a minority...and his or her ability to handle the English
- language." Illegal alien is unkind, especially to Mexican
- Americans; "the preferred term is undocumented worker or
- undocumented resident."
- </p>
- <p> The real issue is not that words can hurt, or that civil
- rights and tolerance are essential in a democracy, but that
- hypersensitivity clouds rational discourse: how to knit a
- contentious American society together rather than allow it to
- become balkanized by competing interests. "We need to reset the
- thermostats," writes sociologist Etzioni, "not shatter windows
- or tear down walls. Extremism in defense of virtue is a vice."
- </p>
- <p> William Donohue, a sociologist at Pittsburgh's La Roche
- College, argues that this same extremism reflects a perverse
- view of freedom. "Civil liberties means the right of the
- individual to win against the majority," he says. "But civility
- and community are both predicated on the individual being
- subordinate to the interest of society. If you make a fetish of
- individual rights, you are going to emasculate that community."
- </p>
- <p> Perhaps one step toward more civility and community would
- be a modification of the famous injunction in Henry VI: First,
- let's restrain--not kill--all the lawyers. Then add a
- second proposal that Shakespeare never had to think of: Let's
- gag all the crybabies. Better yet, let them gag themselves.
- </p>
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